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The Jump-off Rulebook

Posted on 23 February 2010 by TMD

I’m so tired of seeing jump-off after jump-off talk about their “situation” as if they actually have rights. All last week, Tiger Wood’s side pieces were up in arms because he didn’t apologize to them. Seriously!? What the heck is the world coming to when women who voluntarily participate in sex with a married man [...]

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Shut the Hell Up!! The Game is On…

Posted on 01 February 2010 by Babygurrl

February 7th, 2010 will be a glorious day. It’s a day that many women have been longing for and most men are dreading. Why? It marks the end of football season. WHOOOOHOOOO!!!! Yes guys and dolls I do not like football. I don’t like sports really. Never played them; and I get bored watching them. [...]

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Assault on Black Love

Posted on 01 January 2010 by TMD

42% of Black women single Women hollering about not finding a good Black man come in all shapes, sizes, backgrounds, socioeconomic status, etc. And frankly as a Black woman who is intelligent, pretty, funny, insightful, God-fearing and more, I’m tired of hearing it! There are PLENTY of good Black men out there. No, they are not [...]

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Pity & Self Loathing are the New Black

Posted on 16 December 2009 by Kriss

I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself. – D.H. Lawrence I avoided it as long as I could but I finally caved and read the profile piece on Helena Andrews whose memoir “Bitch Is the New Black” will be made into [...]

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Steve Harvey’s book and other completely obvious relationship advice

Posted on 12 October 2009 by TMD

I recently joined a book club. What’s funny is that my friend who encouraged me to join told me that she resisted joining book clubs in the past because, “you know, only White people do that.” Listen black people, reading is not a sin and books clubs are for literate people. You can join one [...]

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The deadly sins of breaking up: Women

Posted on 06 October 2009 by TMD

It’s over. Now what? If you’re a woman who’s ever had to deal with “I’m done” from a significant other, I’m sure you’ll be able to relate to this. First, you need to realize that it will not be easy to completely cut off a guy from your life, but let’s face it…that’s what you [...]

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The things men do to piss women off

Posted on 01 October 2009 by TMD

My friends have relationship problems all day long. It’s not always because my friends suck at relationships and reading men in general (admittedly, many of them do), but it’s more because the men they choose to deal with just don’t get it. By it, I mean a multitude of things. Men don’t get why their [...]

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Things Men Do that Turn off Good Women

Posted on 31 July 2009 by TMD

So, of course I had to respond because while there are good men left out there (and thank God I got one), there are definitely some bruhs walking around thinking their shit don’t stink. Let me clue in you men…it does. Allow me to explain. In no particular order, here are some of the things that [...]

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