Rihanna Deserves Whatever Happens to Her

Oh I’m going to catch some heat for this one.  Honestly though, I don’t care.  When I first heard the rumors that Rihanna was forgiving Chris Brown and they were going to “work out” their issues, I was very skeptical.  First off, I don’t believe rumor whores like Wendy Williams or anyone else that just goes off of what some anonymous source says without any proof.  Rihanna not filing criminal charges was not proof to me because as I’ve said before, as a celebrity you sometimes want to stay out of court because that can open up a whole new world of publicity that you don’t want.  Also after seeing the police photo, I thought to myself “There’s not enough flowers, chocolate or diamonds in the world to excuse that.”  Well, turns out that once again I’ve underestimated the stupidity of your typical human being.  While there still might not be solid proof, between the sources that say the two “love birds” were staying in P. Diddy’s Miami beach house (now they are back in L.A.) and the picture of Chris Brown having a good time on a jet ski down there, I’d say it’s a pretty safe bet that the two are back together.  And with that I add Rihanna to my already long list of dumb bitches. You’d think the extra large size of her forehead would mean more brain capacity but apparently they space is filled with either air or packing peanuts.

Domestic abuse is horrible and wrong.  However, I for one am not one of those people that will sit there and continue to be supportive and understanding to someone who hops right back into the same situation.  Sorry, can’t do it.  I know there will be some people out there, some who were victims of violence themselves who will say that she’s young and still in love with Chris and thinks that she can really work it out with them.  On the podcast I even talked to Dylan about it and he said that her and Chris are still kids and that they don’t know any better.  I don’t buy it.  At our core, we humans are like ever other creature on this earth.  We have natural instincts that are set to make sure we protect ourselves from harm.  Going back to her abuser goes against natural instincts.  It’s retarded.  If you put your hand on a hot stove and get burned, do you willingly do it a second or third time?  No of course not and if someone does you look at them like they are an idiot.  But when Rihanna or your best friend or your mom or you sister repeatedly goes back to the guy who used their face as a punching bag, we’re supposed to be “comforting” and give “support”.  Sorry, I won’t be the one you want to come to for support.  If this is the second, third, fourth or whatever time this guy has put his hands on you, I will call you an idiot.  As a matter of fact, if you go back to a guy that’s already hit you once, I will assume you have some kind of thing for that kind of abuse.  It’s the only thing that explains why you would willingly put yourself in that situation.  The first time, okay, I understand that sometimes you don’t see the signs.  But when you go back yet again, I can only assume you have the mental capacity of a milk dud.  If you return to your abuser you deserve what happens to you after that.  It’s like those fools that hop into the cages of bears and lions at the zoo and then wonder why their faces get eaten off. If you willingly put yourself in a bad situation, expect bad things to happen.

It’s 2009 people.  We’ve heard the stories of Tina, Halle, Whitney and every other woman out there that were beaten, verbally assaulted or had their careers dragged down by some no good fucktard of a guy.  After all this time everyone should be well aware that the “But he loves me and I love him” excuse isn’t valid for these situations.  “Love Conquers All” only applies to Disney Fairy Tales and Lifetime Movies.  Get with reality.